Currently listening to Fergie – Big girls don’t cry
Writing this post seemed so hard for me because I had a lot on my mind and I wasn’t sure of what I wanted to share. Valentines day has never really been a day I look forward to because i never saw it as been special partly because of my relationship status. For as long as I can remember Ive been single so when i think about Vals day the only people that come into my mind are my family members and my best friend.
Don’t get me wrong, I absolutely believe in Vals day and I have val’d a couple of guys because I believe you don’t have to receive love before you can show it. However, I think I’m going to sit this one out, not because I’m single but because I believe I do not love myself enough. So I’m taking out time to appreciate myself more, bask in my little victories, encourage myself more, reward myself better and just be happy!
So in other news, its black history month and also the black panther movie day, how Black-ish (pun intended) can this day get!!! When I was putting together this outfit I knew I wanted the whole all black fierce vibe but I also wanted something feminine hence the lace corset and the skinny jeans and black makeup.
Top – DIY
Jeans – Thrifted
Shoe – Faith
Neck piece – DIY
That’s it for this post guys, always remember you don’t need anyone to make you a better person or to make you happy, single or in a relationship you deserve the best! If it aint working, move on! I hope this post is able to make someone feel better about being single on Lovers day! Do have a lovely valentines day and stay blessed!
Are you team Valentine or anti-valentine? Whats your take on self love? Lets talk in the comments section. XOXO